End of Buffalo Summer

Our summer in New York has come and gone and we're back in Puerto Rico ready to start up school again tomorrow. Benjamin arrived by surprise on July 8th. He had his internship interview that morning and flew in that evening. We knew he was coming...we just didn't know exactly when. We were all so excited to finally see him after over a month. Vivian was a little shy at first and didn't want him to hold her for about half a day. Sylvia was too groggy when she first woke up but warmed up fast once she was awake. All in all it was a great two months. Sylvia really beefed up on her English vocabulary. She said the words 'sword', 'fight', and 'superhero' at least a dozen times a day by the end of it. She enjoyed being with her cousins Ethan and Aidan even if they didn't like being with her so much. We coordinated a lot of rides such that all the kids could get to where they needed to go in a car seat and so that Shawna/Mom could driver her own car since the other one had a manual transmission and she doesn't know how to drive it. We went to the park a lot, swimming at the free community swimming pool (high taxes in NY but free swimming), parties at Ben's cousins, BPO concerts, the zoo, Niagara Falls, evening walks with the red wagon (lots of bickering there), Hill Cumorah Pageant, Church sites, Ethan's baseball games, movies, ate lots of ice-cream, played scrabble and marbles, ran down the slip-and-slide, and had Family Home Evening. It was nice not having to worry about school (although I should have been studying anyway). I originally went so early so I would have an opportunity to do some nursing job shadowing...but I didn't really follow up on that so I didn't do it. But I got some good parenting advice in the process. Sylvia was very excited to come back to PR. You would have thought it was Christmas morning the night we got home. She was so excited to rediscover her toys. With Aidan and Ethan it was always a struggle with the toys since she was always playing with 'their' toys. Vivian is talking more and now says 'wawa' for water. It's still mostly babbling but she understands most everything we say and shakes her head for 'no' and nods once for 'yes'. The girls love playing and laughing together. We have really been blessed with a great family on all generational levels.

Benjamin's Meanderings as a bacholer

I got a dog and gave it up because I was not smart enough to ask Nicky for permission to get him. Amd I spent father's day with my puertorrican family up the road. I got a new temporaty job and will be intrviewed for an internship with a hospital in puerto rico. I dont sleep well because my 3 girls are gone but I am happy to talk to them 3 times a day.

The girls in Buffalo

Sylvia, Vivian and I (Nicky) have spent the last three weeks in Buffalo...without Benjamin and it has been difficult for all of us. Probably more so for Benjamin since he's at home all alone and Nicky is surrounded by kids and adults alike. Since we've been here we've enjoyed playing at the park, playing baseball (to the best of our respective abilities), visiting more cousins, playing in Lake Ontario, visiting the science museum and the zoo, and having a field day with Grama Kay at her school. We still have plans to go to Niagara Falls, Palmyra and the surrounding area, New York City (which we'll do this coming Friday for a week), and maybe even Oneonta to visit Taylor, Suzi and family. Sylvia and Vivian's cousins, Ethan and Aidan have a lot of energy and sometimes Sylvia ends up getting hurt. But they're all learning how to get along. Sylvia loves being around them. Ethan is in school during the weekdays until this coming Friday which makes things a little more manageable between all the adults. Shawna will be teaching her last week of school this week and she is so excited to be retiring.

Sylvia is picking up a lot more English vocabulary being around her cousins. She now imitates Aidan's prayers which are always the same, where she blesses Jesus and her mom and dad and that's the end. I'm sure we'll have her retrained once we're back in PR.
Vivian still loves to be with her mama. Whenever she sees me she usually says 'baba' with the emphasis on the second 'ba'. I guess it's just a mixture of mama and papa. She is now getting in her premolars. I'm glad she'll soon be able to chew more crunchy food. She is as sweet as ever and loves to smile. She has been fully recovered from her accident for several weeks now but still has a red spot on her left flank where she got scraped the worst.

Benjamin has been taking a Pediatrics course during the month and even started working again temporarily at the clinic he worked at before as a receptionist. At least this time he's actually working as a nurse. He is also waiting to receive word for an interview for an internship for the second year of the program. We're really hoping that will come through...but when he'll actually come to Buffalo is in limbo because he's still waiting to know when he'll have the interview. We're assuming he will be called back for it.

And here's wishing all those fathers out there a very happy Father's Day.

Finals Week or The end of the world?

Their is a theory floating around that the recent rapture scare was implimented by an Ivy league student body president who wanted to make good on all of his campaign promesis. Word has it that he planned the rapture during the same week as finals week as to put the student body at ease. Now that finals week is in full swing the rapture would have been an far easier task for most of us. We are suffering it well. Nicky and I should pull through with all A's this trimester and are that much closer to finishing the ADN portion of the degree.

Nicky and the girls are leaving saturday for Buffalo NY and I am staying behind to finish my course work for the ADN degree. I will meet up with them in July and spend some time with grandma and grandpa Kay.

Recent news from the kay side of the family. Grandma kay does indeed have to get open heart surgury and will spend the most of her summer recouperating from it. She is promised a 95% survival rate or so I heard. We must all keep her in our prayers and fasting please.

Sylvia spends most of her free time these days getting dressed up in dresses. She wants to look like a princess and loves to dance to the america song from west side story. She knows all of the moves and almost all of the words.

The remainder of Vivian's wounds are less than a quarter in size. She still requires daily dressing changes because of the depth of the abraision burn. We are very fortunate and blessed for her recovery.

Well more from us later.

Love You,

Benjamin and Nicky and Beauty and Cutie

Off to New York

The kay family is splitting up. Nicky and the Girls are heading to New York in a few weeks and the Papa is staying behind to further his education. They will be apart for a whole month. This is longer than ever in the 6 year history of this magical union. Wish us luck.

Benjamin will be able to start working as a nurse as soon as Aug. or Sept. It seems like such a short time but it is upon us almost. Nicky will have the same oportunity but a little later on.

Vivian is doing better each day. She is almost completly healed of two of the three abrasion burns. The third will take a little longer. We found out today that the Colligan cream that was perscribed to her w/o insurance in a 2 oz tube costs $116.00. Lucky for us the accident insurence should take care of it. Ouch. It works really well. We cant thank you all enough for all of the words of encouragment during this diffacult time. We still have vivid thoughts of what might have happened had the car not stopped. Her hip fracture will heal and requires no further monitering by the orthopoedist. Yay. They called it a fracture of the Iliac Wing. For those of you who are bone anatomy buffs it is a fracture between the Iliac Crest of the Os Coxa and the Anterior Superior Iliac Spine. Ya know, the hip bone or what not.

Mother's day will never be the same. I think for the Kay family it will be Vivian Day!

Nicky here. We had the week before Easter off of school and took full advantage of our time off. We spent the first few days going out with the missionaries; Benjamin with the elders and I went with the sisters. We were also invited by the mission president's wife to participate in a choir performance put on by all the missionaries in the mission. They needed more women's voices so several women from the stake so they asked me if I could join. I went to the rehearsal. All four of us went and Benjamin ended up joining in the rehearsal. It was a good thing he did because the tenors needed a little help. We sang at a meeting for new members, investigators and less active members on Good Friday. The next day we went to the big mall, Plaza las Americas, to the food court. There were about 170 of us sitting in groups of 8 all around the food court. Right at 12 noon one table of missionaries stood up and started singing 'Christ the Lord is Risen Today'. After a couple of measures, another group stands up. And so on until everyone was standing. It's called a flash mob. We sang the first verse of a few other hymns and then sat down. It was a fun experience to be with so many missionaries and sharing our testimonies of the resurrection through music. It is easy to be involved in church activities and service here in Puerto Rico where the church is small. It's been a great blessing for us.

We also spent some time that week at the beach and playing in the water of a broken fire hydrant right by our house. We really had a great time beating the heat. Sylvia loves the beach too. We went three afternoons in a row. She couldn't get enough.

We also took a little trip around the island over the weekend. We went to two of the areas where Benjamin served while he was here as a missionary. We stopped by a couple of houses and saw some people that he knew. It was really great. I only wish I had my camera with me. We didn't really plan the trip...we just left the house and drove.

We've only got a few weeks of classes left. It's amazing how fast this year has gone.

Here we are, back on track. We were able to go on a trip to the city of Ponce two weekends ago with the International Association at the school. We went to the mansion or 'castle' as they call it of a family that made it big in the sugar cane industry. It's called the Serralles Castle with the emphasis on the last syllable. They ran the sugar refinery and made rum as well, which is really big here in PR. It was quite lovely. Then we had lunch and went to the Ponce Museum of Art. It wasn't exactly child-friendly (we weren't allowed to touch anything in either place) but it was nice to get away from the usual routine. We had to take our own car down as well since they only allowed students on the bus. We didn't have to pay for any of the entrance fees or for lunch. That was pretty nice.

Vivian took a little fall with the babysitter a couple weeks ago and got a pretty good scrape on her forehead. Up until now she's been relatively free of injuries involving blood. From the report she didn't cry very much. Vivian is very mellow and loves to be with her Mama. Unless she's preoccupied she gets pretty sad when I have to leave for school. She is gaining weight little by little. Now she's in the 10th percentile for weight instead of the 5th. We got a doctor's note to give to the WIC office so she can get Pediasure milkshakes for babies.

Sylvia is beginning to be able to trace the letter 'S'. I asked her a few nights ago if she preferred speaking English or Spanish. She said, in Spanish, 'Ingles.' I then asked her why. 'Because it's good.' She likes to touch my hair when she's about to go to bed. I asked her what my hair feels like. She said 'it's nice.' The picture of her was taken the day the she and her classmates were talking about food and nutrition. They were supposed to 'be' their favorite fruit by wearing it. Sylvia loves grapes. She even colored the grapes herself.